But it probably had to be done.

S sent me a myspace message about missing me and wanting to hang out again. I sent her back a message (lecture) about being a fair-weather friend.

Excerpt: You are fun, but it is at the cost of an otherwise emotionally draining relationship.

The thing about S is it's nearly impossible to tell what kind of reaction she's going to have when you tell her something she doesn't want to hear. Usually she blows up and becomes manipulative and vindictive. Sometimes she doesn't. It seems, though, when she doesn't, she's made the choice to pretend she never heard it.

We'll see how this all pans out.